Wednesday, August 8, 2012

Into the Word Wednesday

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My church home is LifeChurch. I really do love it! If you can't go to church regularly, they have services online all week, as well as a sermon archive where you can watch past sermons. This past week was the kickoff of a new series called "From This Day Forward."



If you can't tell by the title, it is on marriage/relationships. If you are in one or plan to be one day, check it out.  Anyway, Pastor Craig rattled off some statistics that were mind boggling:

Fewer than 8% of Christian couples pray together.
Of those that do, fewer than 1% divorce!

Considering what the statistics are for "normal" couples (50% divorce rate), I was blown away by this!!

What blew me away even more was that my spouse sat next to me in this service.

 

I haven't shared this on the blog yet, so here goes: I normally sit alone in church. So, not only did he go with me, it was a series on marriage! Way to go, God!

"Wives,
in the same way submit yourselves
to your own husbands so that,
if any of them do not believe the word,
they may be won over without words
by the behavior of their wives, 
when they see the purity and
reverence of your lives."
1 Peter 3:1-2

Getting to the nitty gritty, Pastor Craig encouraged spouses to pray together everyday. If not together, at least for each other every single day.

"If my people, who are called by my name,
will humble themselves and
pray and seek my face and
turn from their wicked ways,
then I will hear from heaven
and will forgive their sin and
will heal their name."
2 Chronicles 7:14

As if I wasn't wowed by God enough on this particular Sunday, my husband led us in prayer that night! We were in bed, my eyes were filling with tears, and my heart was overflowing with the joy of my Heavenly Father.

If you are reading this and relate, at all, to being the wife who sits alone in church, let me offer you some encouragement: Don't give up! God has great plans for you and your marriage! Rely on God! So many times I wanted to give up. Ohhhh so many times.

"But seek first his kingdom and his I righteousness,
and all these things will be given to you as well."
Matthew 6:33

Pray.
Don't give up.
You are not alone.

My heart goes out to wives who carry the spiritual load.  If you are one of those wives, please feel free to email me any time. 



We would LOVE it if you linked up with a post about what God is showing you in the Word, or in your life. Please also stop by and see what God has been teaching each co-hosts this week:

Sarah at Fontenot Four
Becky at Tales For Ashes
Tales of Beauty for Ashes


Into the Word Wednesday Blog Hop Rules:
1. Write a post about what God is teaching you this week.
2. Follow the host and hostesses via GFC.
3. Grab a button to put on your blog - the more the merrier!
4. Check out (and comment) other people's blogs, and be blessed by all the sisters and brothers around the world!







20 comments:

  1. How wonderful to see God working in your life! He is so good :)

    Megan @ wwwsunshinethroughthewindows.blogspot.com

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    1. Thanks so much Megan! God is good! All the time!

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  2. Many wives attend church alone. I see it far too much. It is a continual issue in churches across the board. I have a theory on why, though it is too long a theory to post here. Essentially, I believe the Church spends too much time describing God as a touchy, feely God instead of a productive, pragmatic, problem-solving God. This turns many men off to worship, though not all. As I have tried to strike the balance between the two, I have found the male attendance increase over the past 3 years. We are about 60/40, women to men. This is a rather good balance, though we could do better. I've been in churches where it was 80/20 or even 90/10. The Church needs to do a better job ministering to men.

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    1. I can see that. I think my church does fairly well in this department. They did a series on Samson earlier this year that was just fantastic. I'll have to send you the link.

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  3. For several years I would attend church alone. This was due to the fact that I would serve for one service and attend the other. So we would drive separately and attend different services. A few months ago D came to me and said that he very much wanted to sit next to me in service and worship together. So he and the boys now attend the same service that I do. I still serve for the other, but each week I get to worship with my warrior by my side. God is good.
    Blessings friend!

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    1. Reading you call your husband your warrior is the sweetest thing!! I love that you two get to attend together now! That's great!! And the fact that he came to you and expressed his desire for you to be with him during the service is just heartwarming!! Hug him big!! That's quite the fella you got there!

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  4. online...wow!!!
    So I rarely go to church on my own...my hubby is sometimes on call for work Sun., and I feel like we all need to go togetherso someimes we don't go, but rather spend that time together...it's working for us to feel together. Very, very interesting post here! :)
    Michy

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    1. I should clarify, my church has online sermons, archived sermons, and many ministry tools for free. However, I attend an actual campus. So, when I sit alone at church, it is physically in a church. Hhaha. I giggled at the "online...wow" because I didn't want you to think I was crouched down in my closet with the laptop. Hahhaa.

      Thanks for stopping by Michy!

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    2. Thanks for the clarification! I was thinking the same thing! That you only "saw" church online! I was thinking...how do you build community with other believers! Our church offers one service live streamed on their site in case you can't get there.

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    3. Thanks for linking up with WIP Wednesday too!

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  6. How wonderful it is when God surprises us when we least expect it! I too often sit alone, I am not always in the right mood when I do so either. That I need to work on. Thank you for sharing and for the encouragement. Thanks for linking up too at Simply Helping Him! Blessings!

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    1. I know the heartbreak of wanting to sit with your husband at church. Getting in the right mood is to remember that through your obedience God IS working! Hang in there! Huge hugs to you!

      Thanks for the comment and for stopping by!

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  7. Falen, that is awesome! I am so happy for you. BTW, that is a beautiful picture of you and hubby! (I'll be praying for you!)

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    1. You are so sweet!! Thank you Tereasa!!

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  8. My hubby and I attend church together, except when he's working, but he is not the spiritual leader and my heart grieves over that. We've been married 36 years. I have prayed for God to get a hold of his heart, but sometimes I think I need to reconcile that I may not see that in my lifetime.

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    1. Never give up Mare!! I'll be praying for you two hardcore!! Huge hugs to you, friend.

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  9. thanks for sharing.

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