
At church this Sunday, we sang Matt Redman's "Never Once." Have you heard it?
As we sang and praised God, I was flooded with specific memories of times I thought I was alone. Times where I chose my ways over His ways. Times where my perceived isolation led to pain in those around me. Times where I, myself, was hurting and struggling.
In each specific memory, I carried my husband's last name. Somewhere in the back of my mind I knew I had to prepare this post on Praise in Marriage, maybe that's why God brought these past circumstances to the forefront of my mind.
You see, a lot of wives out there aren't married to a spiritual leader, me included. The thought of "praising" him makes my head tilt a little. Yet, with arms lifted high and tears welling up in each eye this Sunday, I rejoiced in the grace and mercy from a Father with boundless love and infinite forgiveness.
While we wait for them to step into the role of spiritual leader of our families, he can still be praised. We can still build him up, encourage him, honor him, and respect him while extending the same grace, mercy, love, and forgiveness that Christ gives us without our deserving it.
When battling the whys in the face of disappointment, remember:
Every step we are breathing in your grace
Evermore we'll be breathing out your praise

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Thank you for the reminder! I love the man of the house with all my heart. But in the routine of the day to day it becomes easy to start focusing on the frustrations or what isn't getting done rather than the praises he deserves.
ReplyDeleteSo true... Even listing them out frustrations v. praises... I surprised myself with which list was easier. :)
DeleteI really needed this today. God, thankfully, lad me to your blog. I look forward to reading your blog often, as I am your newest member. Xoxo Marci...www.lifewithjoys.blogspot.com
ReplyDeleteAwww Marci. When I got your comment in my email, my phone dinged at the exact time I was doubting the words I put in this post. God's timing is perfect. This great reminder is another reason to be encouraged... Thank you for taking time to comment!
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Wow! how could you have know EXACTLY what I needed to hear:) Thank you. Im following you:))
ReplyDeleteComments like these touch my heart. Thank you Deidre. I pray where ever you are, you shine!
DeleteFalen
You are dead-on with how important it is to praise our husbands. They need to know that we respect them - for who they are now, not just for who we want them to become. It's vital that we praise them in front of others and in private. It does help them to feel admired and respected, but, even more, it changes our mindset. When I'm frustrated with him is when I turn to praise. Both in my own head and out loud, I start listing all the ways he is awesome. My frustration melts away, and we are all stronger for it.
ReplyDeleteFalen...an encouraging post to praise our husbands. It is important. Thank you for sharing this at WJIM this week. Blessings.
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