Monday, September 24, 2012

Revive Your Marriage ~ Praise

 
 
At church this Sunday, we sang Matt Redman's "Never Once."  Have you heard it?

As we sang and praised God, I was flooded with specific memories of times I thought I was alone.  Times where I chose my ways over His ways.  Times where my perceived isolation led to pain in those around me.  Times where I, myself, was hurting and struggling.
 
Never once did we ever walk alone.
Never once did you leave us on our own.
 
In each specific memory, I carried my husband's last name.  Somewhere in the back of my mind I knew I had to prepare this post on Praise in Marriage, maybe that's why God brought these past circumstances to the forefront of my mind.

You see, a lot of wives out there aren't married to a spiritual leader, me included.  The thought of "praising" him makes my head tilt a little.  Yet, with arms lifted high and tears welling up in each eye this Sunday, I rejoiced in the grace and mercy from a Father with boundless love and infinite forgiveness.
 
Carried by your constant grace
Held within your perfect peace
Never Once...
 
This same grace, mercy, love, and infinite forgiveness is our call to action to pass the same on to our husbands.  He may not spiritually be where God has called him to be, but through our actions, respect, honor, and grace he can be changed.
1 Peter 3:1-2
 
While we wait for them to step into the role of spiritual leader of our families, he can still be praised.  We can still build him up, encourage him, honor him, and respect him while extending the same grace, mercy, love, and forgiveness that Christ gives us without our deserving it.

 
When battling the whys in the face of disappointment, remember:

Every step we are breathing in your grace
Evermore we'll be breathing out your praise
 
This week's challenge is to:
 
 
Come back and tell us which one(s) you decided to do! 
 
 
 
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Covered in Grace; Monday's Musings; The Better Mom Monday's Link Up; Mom's Monday Mingle; A Life In Balance; Simply Helping HimGrace Laced Mondays; Marital Oneness Mondays; Make the Scene Monday; Matrimonial Monday

10 comments:

  1. Thank you for the reminder! I love the man of the house with all my heart. But in the routine of the day to day it becomes easy to start focusing on the frustrations or what isn't getting done rather than the praises he deserves.

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    1. So true... Even listing them out frustrations v. praises... I surprised myself with which list was easier. :)

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  2. I really needed this today. God, thankfully, lad me to your blog. I look forward to reading your blog often, as I am your newest member. Xoxo Marci...www.lifewithjoys.blogspot.com

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    1. Awww Marci. When I got your comment in my email, my phone dinged at the exact time I was doubting the words I put in this post. God's timing is perfect. This great reminder is another reason to be encouraged... Thank you for taking time to comment!

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  3. beautifully written ;)


    I"m your newest follower from the Monday Mingle
    followme@ www.studentswife.com

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    1. Thanks lady! Stopping by your place next!

      Falen

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  4. Wow! how could you have know EXACTLY what I needed to hear:) Thank you. Im following you:))

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    1. Comments like these touch my heart. Thank you Deidre. I pray where ever you are, you shine!

      Falen

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  5. You are dead-on with how important it is to praise our husbands. They need to know that we respect them - for who they are now, not just for who we want them to become. It's vital that we praise them in front of others and in private. It does help them to feel admired and respected, but, even more, it changes our mindset. When I'm frustrated with him is when I turn to praise. Both in my own head and out loud, I start listing all the ways he is awesome. My frustration melts away, and we are all stronger for it.

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  6. Falen...an encouraging post to praise our husbands. It is important. Thank you for sharing this at WJIM this week. Blessings.

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